आजकाल बिदेशमा बस्ने नेपाली समाज संगठनहरुमा ५ - १० जना भेला भै एक अर्कालाई वाह वाह गरि एक अर्कालाई सम्मान गरि कहिले अर्कोले आफुलाई कहिले आफुले अर्कोलाई - येस्तै गरेर उत्तर अमेरिकामा भएका नेपाली संगठनका सदस्यहरु येस्तै बिकृतिमा लागेका हुनाले आजभोलि सामुहिक भोजहरुमा सार्बजनिक नेपालीहरुको संलग्नता र सहभागिता पनि कम हुदै आएको देखिएको छ |

सार्बजनिक कार्यक्रमहरु हुँदा तिस देखि पचास सदस्यसम्म एक एक जनालाई मंचमा बोलाएर सम्मान गरि अनि घन्टौ भाषण गरेर कार्यक्रममा आउने सबैलाई दिक्क पार्नु नै कार्यक्रमको प्रचलित परम्परा हुन थालिसकेको छ | यसै भएर पनि येस्ता कार्येक्रमहरुमा नया नया मुख मात्र देखिन थालेका छन् | पुराना सहभागीहरु आजभोलि बिरलै येस्ता कार्येक्रमहरुमा पुगेका छन् |

येस्माथि झन् नयाँ पुस्तालाइ त येस्ता कार्येक्रमबाट अनि आफ्नो समाजबाट ताडिने भन्दा अरु केहि विकल्प नै रहेन | को नै आउँछन् र एउटा एक्सक्लुसिभ ग्रुपको आफ्नो तान्डब हेर्न | त्येसैले उपरोक्त निकायेहरुले एस बिशयेमा छिट्टै ध्यान पुराउन नसकेमा बिदेशमा बसेका संगठन / समाजहरुमा बिकृतिहरु छिट्टै फैलिने छरपस्ट देखिएको छ |

Nepalis are well known to hog the microphone and everyone wants to say something on stage. Programs are getting boring compared to before since they follow the same routine of 1 hour speech to begin, then 5-6 cultural programs, then thank you speech for another 1 hour then inviting every one of the performers and 10 chief guests onto stage to thank them. I have stopped going to Nepali functions for few years because of this trend.

Ditto...i pay for nepali programs entry fee just for their food during dashain tihar..I am single guy and cant cook all authenticate nepali food..so i go there pay up..eat food and get out..
everytime it is same kind of hosting same person every year.....the trophy distribution..then kids fashion show..then some cultural dance numbers and some non cultural ones....recognize some body and at the end of the day DJ party which is not that appealing any way...
In summer its always picnic at exact same spot with exact same activities..bingo...spoon race and all..its like living whole scenario again and again..

I have not been to nepali programs even for their food in last 2 years.....only because after few generic question..the question tht gets in my nerver is " Bhai ko status k ho"...I mostly say single and leave..not h1b or GC or opt or F1

 यो बिदेशीए पछि आएको बिकृति हो वा नेपाल देखि बोकेर ल्याएको हो ?

It's been about 20 years in US and I have seen this happening since year 10. This is nothing new.
Also, I wouldn't call it a बिकृति. It's just an Individual's want to be recognized in a foreign country, sometimes at the cost of others.

Well, I might have gone to few of this programs (may be 2 at most except those in university days) and they are exactly like some of you explained. I was frustrated by those 'bhasans' in Maha jodi program this year. However, they are not to be avoided but rather improved. As communities are growing this sorts of program makes people meet and make friends. I am not much concerned about those who know everything in US but those who have limited language ability, children, amma and bua's who would enjoy meeting people and see changing Nepali society. Also, individuals coming from various walks of life who do not have friends like those of students.