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If your problem is genuine and then if you are in trouble, then I would like to suggest that you try aphrodisiacs.

Search the internet for aphrodisiacs. There are lots of aphrodisiacs if you search in sites like amazon.Here is the link http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_ss_gw_3_11?url=search-alias%3Daps&field-keywords=aphrodisiac+&sprefix=aphrodisiac&sprefix=aphrodisiac&sprefix=aphrodisiac&sprefix=aphrodisiac

There is a substance called 'Horny goat weed' where I used to work.

I hope then the sexual desire, you will gain will suppress the pain that you have to endure during the penetration.  Yeah alcohol and drugs increases your sexual desire to some extent and makes you horny.

I hope this will help a bit.

 

Don't use drugs/alcohol etc. They will harm you down the road. You are suffering from a condition called vaginismus. Probably your gynecologist must have told you about this. If not then go see your doctor again. And also its time to a meet a psychiatrist as well!! They will be of great support.

Jhilke jetho ....I clicked on your profile and it says you are a male. Now it makes me wonder where your husband tried to put his thing.

definition of lesbian  thats you .you need lookin woman?

No_quiero: good catch, but we're assuming that JhilkeJetho and Sad_girl (frm santabanta.com) are two different people.

He/she posted here yesterday at arnd 4 pm and on santa banta at 9 am.

The odds are against you JhilkeJetho (it'd been less if you were JhilkiJethi,but who's lookin ;)).

I knew Jhilekhe_Jetho into guys..as name said he is a male..and he got married to another guy..busted...good work ne_quiero

I knew Jhilekhe_Jetho into guys..as name said he is a male..and he got married to another guy..busted...good work ne_quiero

no quiro, you seem to be MI6 agent, caught Jhilke redhand, hun!

There was another guy with id Chandan, who said he had some terminal condition of some health problem and would be dying soon. He wrote some feelings, but later someone discovered that that was top-to-bottom copied from some internet site and pasted in Sajha.

why do these sick people feel like making rest of the Sajhaitese fool?

he's not making anyone fool, just look at the length of the thread, and the (useless) responses we all have posted. we ARE fools to buy this type of stupid message...the original poster might be somewhere, looking at his screen,  crackling his fingers with a smile of conceit, enjoying our idiotic posts.
i know, i'm just another fool to post this...but what the hell

Jhilke ketolai kina gali garira ho sathiharule?

Usle tehaa ma keti ho bhanera bhanekai chhaina, keta nai ho ni tesaile ta husband sanga bihe garepachhi darlagyo hola ni sex bhanne word le, je gareni dukhne. aafule gareni dukhne usle gareni dukhne.

[quote: No_Quiero]"Jhilke jetho ....I clicked on your profile and it says you are a male. Now it makes me wonder where your husband tried to put his thing. [/quote]


HAHAHAHAHAH. OMFG!

Hi jhilkejetho, from your name, it seems like you are a male. However, there might be lots of people trying to put the name of opposite sex curiously. I think if its the case you should be in the age range of 17- 25 from my experience. I'm not psychiatrist though.  I understand the first time is always hard. Its natural. You are kind of confused and scared. It happens to both boys and girls. Usually in our society, there is stereotype that its a very bad thing to have sex before marriage. But people do end up having sex  anyways. It might be because of love or infatuation or might be you come across prostitutes or horny guys and girls.
In your case, since you are married to a guy its not because of society, it should be because of some kind of fear you have from childhood ( may be you got it from some movies where you saw girls got hurt after being raped by mofo villians or you might have been abused when you were kid). This happens lots of times. Some talk about it. Most of them not.
So, don't worry about it. I'm happy that you got such a caring husband. Go for sex. Foreplay and sexy chatting before going to bed might help you. Keep your surroundings romantic with soothing music, nice aroma and sexy light (not so bright, not too dark but you should be able to change the intensity as required). You might want to use lubricants like KY , which might help to make your intercourse unpainful and more pleasurable.
Trust me, its just a first time. If you ride a bicycle, remember those old days. During your learning phase, did you believe you could be able to ride it without falling? Hell no! But finally you overcome all the fear and with your practice, it becomes like a piece of cake.
So, go girl! Go jhilkejetho!Shake that booty your mama gave you with your husband! Please keep me updating on your situation! I might tell you the plan B if this doesn't work for you!

Thanks
Thanks

Try with Elton John or George Michael...they might be bigger help jhilke keta...busted big time ...haha

ha....funny

R u a gay ?

if ur still havin some problems get a dildo n do it everyday wid caution to expand the size. sumday u should be fine to get injected into ur azz !!

0@$!$ Its natural he is a male..as his name said..and ne_quiero told us earlier and he is talking about his husband..just guess what that makes...i think he is a member of BLUE DIAMOND SOCIETY ..so...

Everyone is made murga!!!

The guy copied it from santa banta.com:
http://forum.santabanta.com/showthread.htm?t=114074

Fooled again? Watch this one!

I am wonder, why people are talking about my name only ? I am male or female that's not your business guys if you want answer the problem , if not leave it...don't write unnecessary thing.....

FYI- I am the one who post this same into the santabanta.com too.