Who we are We are a group of fun-loving people interested in having unbridled fun and talking about the lighter side of life on Sajha.
We are unapologetic about what we say because we don't put too much thought into our words. We have come to learn after all these episodes that when your goal is unrestrained and harmless fun, you can only be so careful or thoughtful about what you say. We mean no harm towards anyone and welcome everyone to join the fun.
The Cafe series, as it has evolved over the weeks and months, is an effort to create a community of like minded people who want to have fun - or as SNDY likes to says - "be good and have fun". That is the only clause in our one-line constitution.
What do we do in the Cafe? Meeting, greeting and sharing is what we do a lot of. As well as singing, dancing, needling (one another of course), opining, joking and anything else to kill time. Not to forget serving and partaking virtual lattes, biscottis, tea, coffee, samosas, jalebis and other tasty baked goods that we take out of the Google Images oven. We've also posted videos, dedicated songs, confessed our crushes, talked about weather, food, work, sports - anything that is fun.
History History is never uncontroversial and ours too might not be free from it.This is version is subject to revision as members deem fit.
This whole thing was started by Hi Nanu and instigated by SNDY. Back in those days, SNDY had so many people to say hi to that she would go on each thread where her friends had posted, and say hi, regardless of what the topic was. It had a positive impact on the site, IMO, because it made conversations lighter and soon others started following that trend and we had several threads where the topic might have been something like the "Collapse of the European Monetary Union" but other than the first few posts, the conversation turned out to be about anything but that.
So one day Hi Dai opened a thread called "Thread for greeting each other". Little did he realize what he had created. That thread filled a vacuum in Sajha, as we saw it, for friendly conversation between people that was free of name calling, personal attacks and caste/creed/school/language prejudices. This was back in the dark days of the caste wars and turf struggles. That thread quickly filled up and reach it's maximum posts in a matter of days and another one was started. And then another and another ...
At that time someone jokingly (perhaps contemptuously) referred to us as the "Nautanki" group. We took on that joke and called our self the Nuatanki Briagade and fulfilled SNDY's long running desire to become a Brigadier. So there were several threads (or episodes as we called them) under the Nautanki banner. We got to a point where we ran the joke to the ground and thought it might be time for a name change. We figured a word like Nautanki can wear out after a while and we suspect it might have deterred some people, who would otherwise have posted, from posting on the thread .
We held a poll on whether or not we should change our name. We decided, by an overwhelming majority, to change the name. It was Juggy who came up with the name "Cafe N". The rest, as they say, is history.
Geography As of last count, in alphabetical order of countries and US states: Alabama, Australia, Belgium, California, Canada, Connecticut, Denmark, Florida, Illinois, India, Iraq, Italy, Massachusetts, Minnesota, Nepal, Netherlands, New Hampshire, New Jersey, New York, New Zealand, Ohio, Pennsylvania, Texas, Virginia, UK, Washington,Washington DC. Some of us haven't disclosed our locations and I might have missed some so the list is probably longer.
Languages Languages heard in the Cafe: English, Nepali, Punjabi, Hindi, Newari, Sanskrit, French, German, Gujrati, Spanish, Esperanto and mixtures and derivatives thereof. The list is bound to grow as we plan to expand to all the corners of the world - although we haven't quite figured how. Politics Constitutional Assembly elections are slated for a some time the future, around NPL2US's recently announced wedding date. The Fun party and the Sun party are running neck to neck so we've figured we are in for some fun and sun regardless of the outcome.
But seriously we tend to leave our politics, class, caste, creed, schooling, religion, Indian idol preferences and anything that could affect the fun on the other side of our keyboards or for other threads. Thapap and Loote may battle it out like there is no tomorrow on other threads, but they've been good buddies here. How do I join ? Post something, anything, in the "be good and have fun" spirit and you are guaranteed to receive a warm welcome
TL confesses to her love of lipstick. Air Sajha plane with the entire Nautanki brigade on-board experiences a near crash resulting in several more confessions from others.
Cleo and Loote's virtual marriage, television shows and favorites foods like lakhamari, sekuwa, momo, Juggy's reports, amongst other things, are the topics of conversation.
(Folks, the above is just my interpretation of things done in the spirit of the Cafe and purely for fun. If there is anything you want changed, added or removed, please let me know)
This place is really deserted today. he he he! I think only sndy can make this place lively. No matter how much we write in here, if sndy doesn't show up it will feel like we are missing something. Sisterjaan! Are you BUSY busy ki just busy? You should keep writing in here.
Danny bro: LOL! That was good IQ Question for us. ha ha ha! "Happy Birthday" song, haina? About Gucha, LOL, I could not remember which finger I had used by that time so I tried using both fingers virtually today but still could not remember which finger was that. I have seen people using ring fingers also, thats when an expert is to play with newbie and if newbies don't wanna play with them fearing that they would loose all of their guchas, experts would challenge them with ring finger. Like in Carom experts play with one hole close.
Captain: Salute to you too! :-)
Rythm: Hello there! Are you in school or at home already? :-)
flip flop: Still in an ecstatic mood after twenty20 cricket result?
Cerine - Happy to see you too. You might see me here more in the next few days re kya!:-) Regarding combo, I was just too bored having nothing to do and hence agitated my not-so-active brain cells!:-P
Captain - Hehehe I have "Captain-someone" and many more combos.
Heya!! I am feeling a little better but not all that good!!
Cappie.. Awww.. the uncle was not for you! You dont sound like my uncle, and I am not doing that good:(. My nose is soo sore because of all the nose blowing!!
SNdy... I feel totally congusted.. ughhh Please make some chicken soup for me. I cant taste a thing right now... even water tastes sweet!
Camo.. I am home... taking rest from everything. I dont want to spread my cold to everyone!!
danny bro, it's not the finger but the skill that matters hoina? i was never good at any finger games, be it marbles or carrom-board
mav, 4 overs ma tyo pani ever slog period ma bowling garnu parne bowler lai pressure hundaina ta? unless you are a good swinger, it's very hard to dupe batsmen since they have the license to kill right from the word go ..how've you been...ani what is this-- u sulking? you were always in my mind although i might have missed saying hello now be happy. :D
TL, since you were after sndi's gifts, i thought you might need a share of it. do you need a separate package? what do u want then, tell me. leather ko salwar kurta ?
sn di, i think i have to bump into you guys empty handed ...got no gifts whatsoever..unless you are willing to accept me as a gift..i wouldn't mind, would you?
rythm, how you doing? i have a suggestion, if i may. go to a jungle and meditate...and then take a snow-cold shower. you'll be fine,..sachhi, trust me!
flips, flips-thapap combo? spice available in" medium/hot/or very hot forms" haha
npl have a nice september 25th (17:30--00:00) :D
caps, you MIA, i not..then I MIA you not? what is this hiding-seeking? :D
camo/nkc/cerine/manvi/limca and all have a good rest of the day
Uncle L: An ice cold shower curing a cold and fever? Are you against scientific discoveries and doctor's recommendations by any chance? My dad would totally blow off if he saw your advice.
Anybody gotten the TPS EAD extension alert notice (i797) thing? online or via post?
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Sajha Poll: Who is your favorite Nepali actress?
Problems of Nepalese students in US
TPS EAD auto extended to June 2025 or just TPS?
whats wrong living with your parents ?
Mamta kafle bhatt is still missing
Ajay Kumar Dev sentenced to 378 yrs
Why Americans reverse park?
Tourist Visa - Seeking Suggestions and Guidance
Now Trump is a convicted criminal .
TPS advance parole Travel document i-131, Class of Admission ?
Nepali Passport Renewal
Biden said he will issue new Employment visa for someone with college degree and job offers
To Sajha admin
TPS Renewal Reregistration
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No dining inside?? 
i was never good at any finger games, be it marbles or carrom-board 
...got no gifts whatsoever..unless you are willing to accept me as a gift..i wouldn't mind, would you? 