Except for the rich grooms, man get screw-up to ful-fills their brides need.....

* this is gold wedding attire that is a must and compulsary  in set- up trend of south India region, Kerala...imagine how the man have to work hard to pay this sum of gold for the future wife in this  wedding needs...

* pic. from~yahoo.groups..

Whatever happened to "All We Need is Love" hai?? Although if i say this i will be tagged as a "Cheap Bastard" i suppose.

are we talking about the dowry system here?
coool. this will help me with my religion class.
i have already brought my points in another forum "sati" about dowry system too.
Can someone tell me when was the origin of dowry? Who was the creator of this form of dowry system just like sati and varna?
Are all these systems came from Laws of Manu?

Thank you for your inputs

cheeers

CrazyHorse, i received this source pic from yahoo grps. pic for share with tittled "Reason not to marry Kerala girl" which is a bit explicit to relate in this kurakani  forum, since the gold price has rose up, for ordinary life being a normal pardesi/ general life-man, deal to this pictorals is irrelevant....especialy with this current economy turmoil....about the dowry i think is at another realm to come added with..

this is tacky ...fashionably speaking!!! highway robbery financially speaking....craziest form of greed of human kind...that brings up a question in my mind...why is Gold so important? is it socially constructed based on perception or does it have some real use???

i am surprised no bodygaurd aroud!!

If the Federal reserve were to declare gold as "worthless", Gold wouldn't be so expensive. Gold is nothing but an object that has been universally used to store a value. Further, Gold isn't easily available. But if our ancestors ( by that not only Nepali but the Romans, Egyptians and Chinese too ) had sought to declare another substance as equally precious, Gold wouldn't be that highly expensive.

Having said all that, this is too damn sad and I'm really embarrassed. If a girl's family can afford to bid farewell by sending the family's daugther(s) laden with necklaces, jewelleries and precious stones, I don't object but this is ridiculous. Certainly an area where Nepalese society could work on!

The woman on top looks gorgeous but somehow, I feel the excessive jeweleries devalue her worth. Its really sad that women are still valued and weighed as "objects"!

They already did,dollar is no longer a gold standerd(used to be until 1970 i believe) now dollar acts like gold ie reserve currency and gold value and dollare value has inverse relation. i am not expert on monetary poicy or those hi fi stuffs but less advance economies tends to value gold more than in advance economies. alot of good side holding gold as the wealth perservation against hyperinflation or if more frequent fluctation on currency value.

I read a news recently in Nepalnews.com that, Nepal imported gold worth of more than it total remittance in last fiscal year. If that is true, we may be seeing the same in Nepalese bride in future.

i wont be able to afford to buy any, unless my future father inlaw be kind enough to decorate his ugly daughter to look her pretty. lol

rentals... why are you guys freaking out.....

Take it this way - Had he married five years ago, he is three times richer. Thanks to his wife!

 

Thankyou all for nice reply and good posting,...thankyou.

For further readings about gold  .......

 http://money.cnn.com/2010/02/12/pf/funds/gold_metals_fund.fortune/index.htm

Another search investing in gold stock/markets ( gold also instable  flactuates...).....

http://www.thelakecountysentinel.com/emilmarinoopinionmywaywallstreet38.html

यो महगि र लुट पाटको यूगमा काठमाडौं सहरै भरी छ्यासछ्यास्ती सक्कली र नक्कली सुनका गहना बेच्ने पसल खोलिएका छन। भारतियहरु को कुरै नगरौ , एउटा मरेको बिहारिले सयौ ज्युदा नेपाली लाई सुलिमा सुताइ दिन्छ।
के तपाईंहरुले तिनिहरुले गलामा लगाएको सुनौलो पासो लाई सुनै भनेर पत्याउनु भएको ? अनी त्यो छेउमा गमक्क परेर रात्रीको ताकमा बसेको छ, भोली छोडेर पोइला गै भने आर्की लाई पहिर्याउन सक्कली सुन पहिर्याएको होला त ?

हरेक पहेलो धातुलाई सुन भन्न् मन लाग्छ कि क्याहो साथी हो ? तपाईं हरुले त भुपी सेर्चन लाई पनि माथ गर्ने हुनु भयो नि ?

थुइक्क जाठोहरु, कती सोझा छौ है तिमी नेपालीहरु, जाठो गुलो काटेर मुसोको सिरानी बनाउनु पर्ने के तिमीहरुको त।

त्यो गहना लगाउने चलन पहिले पहिले को राजाहरुको थियो त्यसरी। आज्कल त भाडामा पाईन्छ बिहेका नक्कली, जलप लगाएका, सबै खाले गहना। नेपालमा पनि बेहुला बेहुलीको भित्री कट्टु देखी लिएर सुट बुट सारी चोलो पेतिकोट ब्रा पेन्टी गहना देखी लिएर बेलुकीलाe चाइने ढाल समेत पाईन्छ भाडामा आज्कल।

This is how pig screwed up. Sorry pig.

This is how pig screwed up. Sorry pig.